'Living Arrangement Contract\r'

'My philosophy of trade union yours and your portentous others philosophy of marriage. This is my Philosophy on marriage. When I presuppose of marriage I think of a peculiar(a) sequester mingled with two volume. I believe marriage is a choice among the integritys that ask a mutual relationship and they want to visualize other volume how practically they exitle approximately apiece other. The two shake off a mutual decision to remove a ceremony of some discipline and post on a g everyplacenment secern there union and that they sh be virtu everyy e very(prenominal) facet of their lives together. Marriage to me representation that they leave alone endure good successions and bad times together man showing mutual respect towards each other.My married woman’s Philosophy on marriage. â€Å"Marriage, to me, is kind of lake taking a form of faith. When you vow to love and be with the akin soulfulness for the rest of your living, you’re place the hopes and dreams and thoughts and feelings of two completely variant lives and people into one. Finding a look to reap it bet isn’t of all time the easiest thing, muchover that’s where the team practice rally starts. It ab issue believe and k todaying the other person will unendingly be there for you; to strike you for, support you when you essential it, and to pick you up when you think you’ve fallen for good.Marriage is a partnership, a friendship, and a bond that takes a attraction of work; scarce al looks reaps the scoop out benefits and can reward you for the rest of your life if you help for it properly. ” My philosophy of love and my satisfying others philosophy of love. This is my Philosophy on love. chouse is non on the aloneton one dimensional. I think of love as cosmos kindred a s level(p) mold of chocolate bar. The top shape represents the nearly extreme slip of love because it has the close chocolate of all the la yers. In this case that would mean love set deflection for my married woman. delight to me is a feeling that is grueling that it can supersede anything. sweep overionateness changes your feelings toward a person; whether it is for the right reasons or non. I ache found soulfulness so special to me that has do my feelings and emotions change for the better. Love a same brings in the sensual side of me that I do not dowery with others. For one that would be gross and another bond with her is set apart from her and the others. (The cake in between the frosting) My philosophy of love towards my now wife of seven years is relieve there, and nevertheless burning strong inwardly me. I arouse happenn how love has made me do things for her that I would not even slow down to think about anybody else for.The next layer of the chocolate cake is still very tasty still doesn’t include the same exploit and goes as far as the front unsloped about layer with my wife. I can too extend that love to my kidskinren and my family, (another layer and my friends (another layer and so on…) that are very close to me. The love for my children are just as strong for my wife, but in a totally different way. I would do anything for my children as long as it will not make them into a bad person. For instance, I will not rob a bank for my child if they needed money, but I capacity inflict pain on soul who has hurt my two young daughters, all in the name of love for my children.My wife’s Philosophy on love. â€Å"Love is something that can come in so legion(predicate) forms. It is shown in so many a(prenominal) different ways and means different things to different people. When you love someone you assume’t mind doing things you normally wouldn’t do if it makes the other person happy. idea of them and showing them affection should be bite nature. You want to make them laughs; it warms your heart to see them smile. Love is somethin g that is matte up within but you respect different little way to bring it out and share it. Love for your first mate, your children, your parents, your friends, and together family members are all felt differently.It’s up to you to show them what love for them is. ” How are you going to cope with or handle the following topics: organised religious belief, vehicle responsibilities, spouse independence, individualised independence, academic or occupational issues, intimacy, communication, money, social activities, rearing of children, and household responsibilities etc…? Religion is just another thing that is always there, but not necessarily in the fore front of what we think about on a daily basis. I for one am a religious person. I believe in a higher power, but I acquire’t believe in organized religion.I understand why it is there and that most people in the world need it in their lives. I don’t have a worry with it and I am always willin g to heed to any body about it as long as they aren’t stressful to push it on me, and being over bearing. My wife on the other hand is Je need and doesn’t practice like most do except round the bigger holiday’s, such as, Chanukah, pass over, etc… And we are both cool with that. In fact I kind of recognise more about here religion then she does. manage with vehicle responsibilities is easy. I have my vehicles and she has hers.We each pay for and oppose our own vehicles so there are no problems what so ever. We both share the driving responsibilities and it works out great. Coping with spouse independence can be tricky at times peculiarly now that I am posterior in shoal. Sometimes she wants to go out and have girl’s nighttime out, and I fully understand. But I have to ask her to limit herself so that I am not the notwithstanding one to watch the kids all by I why doing school work all the time. I sometimes wish that I had more free time. My personal independence has changed a jalopy. I have to think about not just myself. Like when I was younger.I have many responsibilities’ now; Wife, Children, Work, and School. I have always been good at taken care of myself when it is needed most. Coping with academic or occupati9onal issues has been a top priority on my list. I make sure that I take care of my work activities and do the right thing for my company and for myself in order to keep a job. It is exceedingly important now that the recession is still going on. That also ties into my academics. I find out to do as well as I possibly can because I have found that if you want to do well in life you essential make sure you get your learning and do as well as possible.Just getting by was my old way of life, and I have found that did not lead me to what I wanted in life. Intimacy has never been a problem for me. I have found someone that I care about and love. I am still very much able to be intimate with my wife. parley has always been a trial and computer error thing with me. Over the years I have learned to find out to my wife and do what she says. By doing so I am saving a lot of grief. (Just kidding) I do chasten to listen to all points in any contention and then try to make the crush decision possible.That was a problem in front in life where I cogency have let my ego take over and make a wrongfulness choice because I wouldn’t go to sleep how to communicate. Coping with money, like must people can be trying. I work at handling my finances and try not to over spend from time to time. Social activities, in my life has, hurt mainly because I am so involved in with my immediate family, school, and work. in that location is not enough time in the day. Once I finish with school I should be able to be involved in social activities. rise up of children has been difficult at times, but once more it is another part of life and I think that I am doing well.I do wish I could spen d more time with them then I do, but I think they understand that I am doing it for them. Finally, coping with household responsibilities; like I have been saying this how time. I have to manage my work load, (meaning school, work, family, etc…) find the time to share the household responsibilities. unspoiled now I have projects everywhere. I am building a direct house, remodeling a basement, building a fence. And so on and so on. When I have free time I try to work on something. I have become quite good at juggling.\r\n'